Put a frog into a vessel fill with water and start heating the water.
As the temperature of the water begins to rise, the frog adjust its body temperature accordingly.
The frog keeps adjusting its body temperature with the increasing temperature of the water. Just when the water is about to reach boiling point, the frog cannot adjust anymore. At this point the frog decides to jump out.
The frog tries to jump but it is unable to do so because it has lost all its strength in adjusting with the rising water temperature.
Very soon the frog dies.
What killed the frog?
Think about it!
I know many of us will say the boiling water. But the truth about what killed the frog was its own inability to decide when to jump out.
We all need to adjust with people & situations, but we need to be sure when we need to adjust & when we need to move on. There are times when we need to face the situation and take appropriate actions.
If we allow people to exploit us
physically, emotionally, financially, spiritually or mentally they will continue to do so.
Let us decide when to jump!
Let's jump while we still have the strength.
A frog and hot water vessel
Why women want divorce.
Hello all,
I am really fed up with my married life. I applied divorce already thought he would never come to court for hearing and I would have got divorce easily but my husband came to court unexpectedly. I was really shocked to see this. He says he loves me and does not want to leave me. If he really loves me he should not have come to court which would have favoured me in getting divorce. Why these husbands are like this and not understanding wives.
Coming to the reason why I applied divorce. Ours was love marriage, I was very close to my friends.
They helped me a lot to get my marriage done. They were the ones with me since I started my job here in chennai. But my husband never understands. Before marriage they used to come home stay all but after marriage they come home and be there with us till night 11 only and leave. They are very good people, they feel that we are new to this area and helping being with us all the time. But my husband hates this and feels he wants privacy and asking them to visit once in a week for lunch or so. This irritated me to core. Applied divorce. Hoping to get soon. Please pray for me friends.
All men are perverts
A general question to married men out there, I hav seen my husband posting comments on celeb women body structure like you look so sexy, so curvy in their insta messenger and when I question he says it is not anything to break my head abt.. Is this a normal "man" thing or am I married to a wrong person :(